What to Wear to a Social Event (For 20s–30s Men & Women)

Not sure what to wear to your next social event? You’re not alone. Whether it’s a paint night, cocktail mixer, or bubble tea social, knowing what to wear can make a huge difference in how you feel—and how confidently you connect with others.


At National Social Networking Group, we host events for 20s–30s to meet new people in a relaxed, social atmosphere. Here’s your ultimate guide on what to wear to a social event, broken down for both men and women, to help you look and feel your best.

👩 What Women Should Wear to a Social Event

Whether it’s your first time or your fiftieth, the vibe is casual chic with a touch of personality. Here's what works:

✅ Go-To Outfit Ideas:

  • Cute tops or crop tops with high-waisted jeans or a skirt

  • Flowy dresses or rompers (especially for summer events)

  • A trendy jacket or cardigan for layering

  • Simple jewelry or statement earrings to add flair

  • Comfy but stylish shoes (sneakers, boots, or low heels)

🚫 What to Avoid:

  • Heels you can’t walk in

  • Anything too tight or too sheer that makes you uncomfortable

  • Gym wear or overly casual loungewear

🧠 Bonus Tips:

  • Dress for confidence, not perfection—feeling comfortable helps you connect better

  • Want to look flirty? A touch of cleavage or a fun silhouette is totally fine, especially at laid-back events like paint nights or cocktail socials

  • Light makeup and a clean hairstyle go a long way

👨 What Men Should Wear to a Social Event

Think relaxed, confident, and put-together. You don’t need to wear a suit, but avoid looking like you just rolled out of bed.

✅ Solid Outfit Choices:

  • A clean, fitted t-shirt or polo with dark jeans or chinos

  • A casual button-up shirt (great for paint nights and networking events)

  • Stylish sneakers or clean boots

  • A minimal watch or bracelet to elevate your look

🚫 What to Avoid:

  • Wrinkled shirts or pants

  • Flip-flops or overly worn-out shoes

  • Gym wear unless the event says so

🧠 Bonus Tips:

  • A little cologne (not overpowering) leaves a lasting impression

  • Trim facial hair, do a quick skincare routine, and wear something that fits—fit > brand

🎨 Event-Specific Advice

🖌️ Paint Night:

Wear something you can get a little messy in—but still feel good in! We provide aprons, but opt for darker or washable clothes just in case.

🧋 Bubble Tea Social:

These are trendy and relaxed. Think visually appealing—but approachable. Cute and comfy is the way to go.

🍸 Cocktail Mixer:

This leans more polished. Smart-casual works best: dark denim or slacks, nice tops, and your best version of “effortlessly social.”

🔥 Final Tips

  • You don’t need to overdress—just aim to look put together and open to conversation

  • Ask yourself: “Would I want to talk to someone who looks like this?” That’s your cue

  • Confidence isn’t just in your clothes—but your clothes can help unlock it

🎟️ Ready to join the fun?
Visit NationalSocialNetworking.com to grab your spot at our next social event in Ottawa, Montreal, or Toronto!
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